“I was so disappointed by what people said that I might not be able to be a mother anymore.”
“The chances of getting pregnant are now just 50 per cent,” she said. I spent that time in a state of stress and depression. I was getting frustrated. I have had a history of Miss Carriage (miscarriage) before and this is the third time the doctor has told me that your pregnancy is ectopic. The doctors still gave me some hope that the next pregnancy would not happen, but the people around me were very disappointed that I might not be able to become a mother now.
This is the story of Anam and millions of women like her who spend the best days of their lives in great pain and suffering.
Anam found out about her ectopic pregnancy when one day she suddenly started having pain like the tension in periods. The pain was so severe that she fell to the ground and had to be rushed to hospital. He says that the doctors kept checking him again and again.
Ectopic pregnancy refers to an abnormal pregnancy in which the ovaries begin to form outside the uterus, not inside. This pregnancy stays in the fallopian tubes with the ovaries, but it can also occur in the abdomen or cervix.
“I was just alive, I spent that night in pain and I had an operation in the morning. My stomach was cut and my pregnancy was aborted. ‘
In this operation, Anam’s fallopian tubes, which were badly affected, were removed, but the doctors also said that it is not possible that you cannot get pregnant again, so there is nothing to worry about.
She says she used to read stories about people’s children and successful pregnancies and reassure herself that “my pregnancy could happen again.”
But the world outside the clinic was different. According to Anam, people around her used to tell her that if she had a third pregnancy after two D&Cs, that is, ectopic … And that she will never be a mother again.
Two years after the ectopic surgery, Anam became pregnant again, but the pregnancy was lost and she went through the painful process of D&C again.
Anam says she was devastated after the surgery. “I thought, after so many pregnancies, I would never have children again. I was depressed. My husband and I thought we were going to IOI. ‘
But it so happened that a week before he left, Anam was again hopeful. But once again, the fear of losing the pregnancy was on her mind. “I thought it would be Miss Carriage again,” she says. The hope was gone, but time passed and the pregnancy was completed and after my surgery a daughter was born who is now two years old.
“I did not give up until the end, and I think it was because of my mother’s prayers.”
“I think you should keep the hope and never think that it can’t happen now or that you can’t be a mother. There is nothing in the world that cannot happen, everything is possible. “
Anam says she was so frustrated during this whole period that she even sought help from a psychologist. According to him, the psychologist asked him to do some painting. Then she thought she would start putting on make-up and for that she started putting on make-up on herself.
Laughing, Anam said that she used to apply make-up with such passion that even at night, when her husband’s eyes were opened, he was scared. She did not give up and kept on putting on make-up and posting on social media. After that people started getting her make-up done and today she is a make-up artist.
What is an ectopic pregnancy?
Gynecologist Dr. Mehnaz Asim said that ectopic means ab normal or abnormal pregnancy. Such a pregnancy stays in a place other than the uterus, not inside the uterus. It usually stays in the fallopian tubes with the uterus, but it can also be abdominal or in the cervix, which is the lower part of the uterus.
According to the NCBI report, 97% of women complain of lower abdominal pain after an ectopic pregnancy, 79% of vaginal bleeding, 91% of abdominal stiffness, and 54% of soft fallopian tubes. Falling, 15% have signs of infertility, and 11% have chronic ectopic pregnancy.
According to the report, ectopic pregnancy is often considered Miss Carriage. It is also reported that since 9% of women do not report lower abdominal pain and 36% of women do not complain of fallopian tube tenderness, ectopic pregnancy is often not diagnosed despite a physical checkup.
Gynecologist Dr. Mehnaz Asim said that ectopic means ab normal or abnormal pregnancy.
The report also states that there has been an increase in the number of ectopic pregnancies due to pelvic inflammatory disease called chlamydia trichomoniasis.
The report also states that the causes of ectopic pregnancy can vary, including tube damage, infection or surgery, infertility, vitrofertilization and smoking.
Dr. Mehnaz Asim says that there is no apparent reason for this, but according to a study, there are cilia inside the fallopian tubes, the process of which results in pregnancy in the first tubes and from there. The pregnancy enters the uterus and connects to the endometrium of the uterus.
But if the tubes rupture, it causes the cilia to deteriorate and not move, and often the pregnancy goes to the back of the tube and the pregnancy stops in the cluster of femoral end.
Some women who smoke more are at risk of having an ectopic pregnancy, according to a study.
Dr. Mehnaz said that there is a high possibility of pregnancy even after ectopic. But the chances of being ectopic again increase.
I think only 5% know what an ectopic pregnancy is. Today’s girls still search the internet but their mother or mother-in-law has to explain that it is an abnormal pregnancy. A pregnant woman may have to have a laparoscopy or have her tube ruptured.
Dr. Mehnaz also said that some older women who bring their daughters-in-law ask them to write that she cannot become a mother so that they can remarry their sons but also some good people. There are those who say that nothing should happen to our daughter-in-law.